The life you designed in your thirties doesn't quite fit anymore. Not because something went wrong. Because something went right.
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Apply NowAre your children becoming more independent — and wondering what comes next for you?
Have you caught yourself asking what you actually want for the next ten years?
Do you want concentrated time that's entirely your own — and the right women around you?
Are you ready to give yourself the space to find out?
If any of that sounds like you, keep reading.
Children growing up.
Careers evolving.
More space than there used to be.
And with that, a different kind of question emerges:
What do I actually want now?
Not what makes sense to the people around me.
Not what looks right from the outside.
What do I want this next chapter to feel like — and what would it look like if I actually designed it?
That's the question we'll explore together.
Through beautiful places.
Unhurried conversations.
And the company of women who understand exactly why you're here.
Not by default — but by design.
And from where I'm standing, this might be the most interesting chapter yet.
And now they're making space to ask a different question:
What do I want next?
Not because something is wrong.
Because this chapter matters too.
The women you'll walk with aren't looking for someone to tell them the answer. They're creating the space to discover it for themselves.
You're not figuring it out alone.
That's what makes this different.
Somewhere between a beautifully curated travel experience and a guided framework for thinking clearly about what comes next — with Portugal as it actually lives, not as it's packaged.
Seven nights at Canto do Sol
Valley views from your bedroom window, a natural pool in the garden, and evenings that smell of whatever is growing outside.
All meals
Dinners that begin at dusk and end when the conversation does — local wine, seasonal food, sometimes a private chef in an open kitchen.
Five guided walks
Cliff paths above the Atlantic, vineyard rows heavy with October fruit, stone villages where the fountains have been running for centuries.
Encounters, not activities
A farmer who knows what the land has always grown. A craft passed between women for generations. The doors most visitors never find — open.
Each day carries a simple theme — a lens drawn from the world of strategic thinking, shared over breakfast and carried into the walk. Nothing to complete. Nothing to get right. None of it requires anything of you except showing up. Just a question worth sitting with, and a conversation worth returning to over dinner.
The gym, a yoga session, quiet meditation, or a long coffee with the view. Your morning rituals are honoured here. The day's lens — a simple idea to carry into the hours ahead — is shared over breakfast when you're ready.
Cliff paths where the Atlantic breaks white far below. October vineyard rows still heavy with fruit, the air carrying something warm and almost sweet. Stone villages where the fountain in the square has been running for five hundred years. Five days of guided walks that do something to you — woven with cultural encounters, local makers, and guides who open the places most visitors drive past.
Fresh, seasonal food. Excellent local wine. Sometimes a private chef; sometimes a restaurant where Portugal reveals itself slowly. And always: good conversation, real laughter, and the unhurried ease of being somewhere with exactly the right people. Turns out, when no one needs anything from us, we're very good company.
It might be exactly what you need right now.
The experiences I'm designing for this week aren't activities. They're encounters.
Regenerative farming sessions that bring you into relationship with the medicine the land has to offer — and how it connects to your own wisdom and your current desire for a more restorative, rooted life.
Local crafts and storytelling that invite you into a more true and generous history, grounded in the care that women have always passed between generations.
Daily movement practices to slow-start your mornings and softly wrap your evenings. Sunset water rituals. Unexpected cultural encounters chosen for what they give you, not what they show you.
Every experience is an act of reciprocity — between you and this place, between this group of women and the people who call Portugal home. I'll be with you for all of it.
— Lystra
What carried you here won't necessarily carry you forward. That voice telling you to wait — to let this moment pass, to circle back when things settle — it isn't protecting you. It's the same voice that's always asked you to wait your turn.
You don't have to know exactly what you want yet. You just have to be curious enough to find out.
This retreat is built around walking. Not as exercise — as a way of moving through ideas. Northern Portugal is one of the world's great walking regions, and we chose it deliberately: the landscape does half the work.
There's something about walking that loosens things.
When you move through a place at a human pace — your feet on ancient stone, the smell of crushed grass or Atlantic salt depending on the day, a village appearing around a bend that couldn't have been planned — thoughts surface more honestly than they do at a desk or in a meeting room.
Walking is one of the oldest forms of healing. Natural movement has a way of flushing the body and the mind — releasing what's been held, making room for something quieter to come through.
And sometimes it isn't about figuring something out. Sometimes it's simply about allowing yourself a moment to be — to let go, in the company of women who get it.
This is where clarity begins.
A family-owned eco-lodge above the Lima River, near Ponte de Lima — the real Canto do Sol.
"Well designed to accommodate a restful retreat. The food delightful — and only a short walk to the old mill and river."
"More than just a haven of peace. A project created by a wonderfully attentive family — the natural pool is magnificent and the view breathtaking."
Begin in Porto. Then north into the Lima Valley — one of Portugal's oldest and most beautiful corners.
Northern Portugal · October 1–8, 2026
Everything you need to decide is right here — the experience, the investment, the dates.
Canto do Sol has 14 rooms across two houses and a neighbouring apartment — each one private, each one distinct. We're welcoming 16 women, with two rooms configured for double occupancy. Single occupancy rooms are available in three tiers.
Everything is included and everything is handled. What that's worth — in money and in the time you won't spend planning — is part of what you're investing in.
| Tier 1 | Private room, ensuite bathroom | $7,100 + GST |
| Tier 2 | Private room, private bathroom just outside the room (includes 2 apartment-style rooms) | $6,800 + GST |
| Tier 3 | Private room, shared bathroom | $6,400 + GST |
Travelling with a friend? Or open to the one you haven't met yet? Two rooms are available for double occupancy — shared space has a way of creating the conditions for the conversations that matter most.
| Shared room | Per person, for women travelling together or open to sharing | $6,200 + GST |
Founding Member Places — Now Filled
The five Founding Member places have all been claimed. Standard pricing, shown above, applies to remaining places.
Room selection is first come, first served. The four Tier 1 rooms — each with a private terrace — are the most limited. If you're travelling alone and would like to be matched with a roommate, we'll do our best to accommodate that; roommate matching can't be guaranteed.
A deposit of $2,500 is due upon enrollment to secure your place. The remaining balance is due in two equal installments — 50% due July 10, 2026, and the final payment due July 24, 2026. All prices are per person in Canadian dollars, plus GST.
Here are the things most women want to know before they take the next step.
The women who come on this retreat have built full lives. They're thoughtful, curious, and genuinely good company — drawn to depth, to conversations that go somewhere, and to people who expand their thinking.
They show up open and willing — quirks, contradictions, and all. Fair warning: there will be laughter. The unguarded, slightly-surprised-by-yourself kind. And they tend to find, somewhere over the eight days, that they're more themselves than they've been in a long time.
If any of that sounds like you — it probably is.
This retreat is not the right fit if you're looking for a structured program, professional support, or therapeutic services. This is a well-designed experience that removes noise and creates space. What you do with that space is yours.
Most women have their own room. If you'd like to share, you have two paths: register together with a friend at the double-occupancy rate, or book your single room and ask to be matched with a roommate. If we're able to pair you, you'll both move to the double-occupancy rate and we'll refund the difference. If we can't, you simply keep your single room at the rate you booked — there's never an extra charge. Roommate matching can't be guaranteed, but asking costs you nothing.
This retreat isn't tied to a particular birthday or an empty house. Some women feel the pull to design their next chapter when the nest empties. Others feel it years earlier — with a full house, a full calendar, and a quiet sense that something needs to shift sooner than "normal."
If you're asking yourself what you actually want now, you're not early and you're not late. There's no schedule to be on. You're welcome here, whatever season you're actually in.
Most women do. The pre-trip gathering — held before departure — means you'll already know the women you're travelling with before you land in Porto. You arrive as part of a group, not as a stranger.
And the connection doesn't end in Portugal. Women who walk, think, and share like this together don't easily lose each other — after the retreat, the group stays connected in a shared space.
This isn't for women who want a tour. It's for those who want an experience — the kind where, when you try to explain it afterwards, you find yourself smiling, reaching for the moments that moved you. A conversation that cracked something open. A laugh you didn't see coming. The wide-eyed feeling of finally figuring out something that matters.
Walking is the spine of the experience — but the days are shaped by much more than that. We begin in Porto with a guided exploration of the city: its history, its neighbourhoods, its particular way of moving through time. Along the way, cultural encounters are woven into each day — with local makers, historians, and guides who bring the places we move through to life. Some evenings unfold over a private chef dinner featuring regional ingredients; others take us to local restaurants where Portugal reveals itself slowly.
Every experience is chosen to be immersive rather than touristic — encounters that leave you with a felt sense of Portugal, not just a photograph of it.
Authentically Portuguese and eco-luxe — a property chosen for character and soul as much as beauty. Sweeping views, beautiful spaces, and the kind of considered comfort that means you never want to leave. Somewhere you can truly settle in.
We'll spend the week at Canto do Sol — a family-owned eco-lodge in the hills above the Lima River, near Ponte de Lima, one of Portugal's oldest villages. Two houses and a neighbouring apartment, sweeping valley views, a natural pool, and a garden you'll eat from. The owners call the style "ecological boho-chic" — comfortable, considered, and rooted in this place. Not a hotel. Not a resort. Somewhere clearly made with love and a point of view.
Selected through Lystra's Qmooniti lens — not just for beauty, but for the way it connects you to Portugal as it actually lives. Character, comfort, and a sense that this place was chosen specifically for you.
Five days include guided walks. These are not performance walks — the pace is unhurried and routes are chosen for atmosphere and landscape, not difficulty. If a particular day doesn't feel right for you, there's no obligation to join every walk. This experience is shaped around you, not the other way around.
The group is intentionally small — 16 women — enough to feel like a genuine circle, small enough that everyone knows everyone by the end of day one. It's the number where conversations go somewhere they can't in a larger group.
The group size isn't a capacity limit — it's a design choice.
October was chosen deliberately. The summer crowds are gone, the light is extraordinary, and the temperatures are made for walking — warm days, cool evenings. It's harvest season too, so the vineyards and local markets are at their best. You'll encounter Portugal as the people who live there experience it — not as it's packaged for July.
The retreat runs October 1–8, 2026. The group will be home by October 8th — in plenty of time for Canadian Thanksgiving weekend.
You're welcome to book your own flights, or have them arranged for you. Lystra can coordinate flights on your behalf, with access to industry tools and fare options not typically available to individual travellers. Where possible, she can also align flights so you're travelling with others in the group.
Most women will fly into Porto (OPO), the closest major airport to the retreat. Lisbon (LIS) is also an option and may offer more convenient connections depending on where you're travelling from.
Airport transfers aren't included in the retreat investment, which gives you the flexibility to arrive early or stay longer — but transfer coordination for everyone arriving from either airport is handled for you. Once you land, we've got you.
We'll share recommended timing once the retreat is confirmed, so you can book with confidence.
Through Qmooniti Travel, Lystra can also arrange extended stay options for those who'd like to spend more time in Portugal before or after the retreat — whether that's a few extra days in Porto, a coastal escape, or something further afield. Just let us know.
Canadian passport holders do not need a visa to visit Portugal for stays of up to 90 days. Your passport should be valid for at least three months beyond your planned departure date from Portugal. When you arrive, your biometric data will be registered through the EU's Entry/Exit System (EES) — a quick process at the airport. If you're travelling on a non-Canadian passport, we recommend checking current requirements with your government's travel advisory.
October in northern Portugal means warm days (around 18–22°C), cool evenings, and the occasional shower. Comfortable walking shoes, light layers, and a packable rain jacket are the essentials. We'll send a full packing list once you're confirmed.
We know life happens. Here's how we handle it:
Cancel before July 1, 2026: full refund, less a $500 administration fee.
Cancel July 2 – August 1, 2026: 50% refund.
Cancel after August 1, 2026: no refund.
If your place can be filled from the waitlist, we will refund your retreat fees less the $500 administration fee.
If we cancel the retreat for reasons within our control, you'll receive a full refund within 14 days. This is exactly why travel insurance with trip cancellation coverage is required to attend.
While Jane designs what happens inside the experience, Lystra Germaine Sam designs everything that moves. Two people, two complementary bodies of work — one retreat that holds both.

For more than twenty years, Jane has helped business owners and leadership teams step back, ask better questions, and find clarity when navigating change. Since 2014 she has designed and led 13 retreats for women entrepreneurs and leadership teams — and she knows how to create the kind of room where people surprise themselves.
Over the course of the journey, Jane creates moments of reflection — a question shared over breakfast, a thought offered between landscapes. Nothing formal. Nothing required. Just the right question at the right moment.
"Since 2015, Jane has arranged and facilitated five annual retreats for our management team. Her facilitation style is terribly well planned — and she injects a lovely sense of humour and attention to detail into every aspect. What started as a group of individuals in their own silos has become a cohesive team with a common sense of purpose."— Roy Lamont, Client

Based in Vancouver and travelling with us in Portugal, Lystra designs and leads the entire travel experience — accommodations, routes, transfers, and local hosts, coordinated with calm precision.
Through Qmooniti, she curates travel grounded in cultural reciprocity — ensuring every encounter honours place, supports the local economy, and reflects Portugal as it actually lives. She isn't managing this from a distance. She travels with you.
"Lystra is THE BEST! Her attention to detail, insight into local experiences, and ability to anticipate my needs in real time is why I've been using and recommending her luxury concierge travel and lifestyle services for years."— Judi L., on Qmooniti Travel
You bring yourself — your appetite, and an openness to what unfolds. We take care of everything else.
So you can simply be part of it — with the right people around you.
Because there comes a point when doing the same isn't enough anymore — when life shifts and you find yourself asking who am I now, and what matters to me at this stage of my life.
You can be surrounded by people, showing up for everyone else — and still feel a little disconnected from what you want.
Clarity doesn't come from pushing harder. It comes when you give yourself time and space — and when you're in the company of women asking the same questions.
That's what makes this different — you're not figuring it out on your own.
Not a fixed plan.
But the beginning of what's next.
"What made me happiest about it was being with all the women. A very small group — and even though we do so many different things, we have so many things in common. Hearing their stories, hearing their ideas, was excellent."
Kendra · Retreat participantTaking a leap of faith is scary. In 2010, I was struggling with the demands of my career and trying to figure out summer camps for my boys. I wanted more flexibility, more time with them — and somewhere underneath all of it, I knew something had to change.
But wanting something different and believing you can have it are two very different things.
What shifted wasn't a plan. It was permission. I gave myself permission to want something different — and once I did, things began to move. We bought a cabin on Lake Okanagan. I left my employee job and became a contractor.
I have never looked back. It was the best thing I ever did for my family — and for myself.
None of it would have happened if someone hadn't shown me, quietly and without fanfare, that a different choice was simply an option.
This story is why this retreat exists. If it resonated — you're exactly who it's for.
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You don't need to arrive with answers. Just a willingness to be part of it.
Aside from the amazing content and the warmth of Jane and her team, it was the people that attended the retreat. They were phenomenal. I have found a new family of like-minded people — and it helps a lot.
"It gives you downtime. It gives you space. When I arrived I felt open and ready — removed from my environment, into this calm space with a balance of learning, relaxing, good food, and good company."
"Jane asks really, really good questions. It made me dig deep and think about things that hadn't even crossed my mind, or that I hadn't been putting enough emphasis on. I found it really useful."
"The sense of community was the most powerful part for me. Being with other women who understood what I was experiencing made everything feel less overwhelming — and I left feeling more confident and clearer about what comes next."
Three things that quietly return when women finally give themselves space to pause.
The kind that comes when you step outside the noise. What matters becomes simpler — and often, more obvious than you expected.
From being in a place that restores something in you — and in the company of women who expand your thinking. The kind of energy that comes from feeling lighter, freer, and fully present.
To choose what brings meaning, satisfaction, and joy — without needing to justify it to anyone, including yourself.
And somewhere in that space,
you begin to remember what feels like you.
"Giving yourself permission to take a break from the day-to-day to look at the big picture is so important. Until you experience it, I don't think you get how important it is."
Nicole · Retreat participant
More than a trip — something that happens when the right people come together.
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